Men never forget, often women like cats

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To this day, I still remember Mr. Lao She's text "Cat" in the Chinese class of elementary school. Mr. Lao She loves cats, his cleverness and naughty, and his liveliness and cuteness. Of course, his favorite is it. Contradictory Personality:

Cats are timid, but very brave; cats are playful, but they are very conscientious and patient when catching their prey; cats are cold and independent, but they are very clingy when they want to be coquettish.

In Mr. Lao She's eyes, the footprints of cats on his beloved manuscripts are called "Little Plum Blossoms"; the meows of cats in his ears are of different thickness and tone.

Mr. Lao She also loves to grow flowers, but when the cat is tossing the flowers and plants in his yard, he still thinks the cat is very cute. This is true love.

**## Modern people are more and more fond of cats. According to the survey, in the past two years, the number of pet cats has increased sharply, and the increase has exceeded that of pet dogs for the first time. Few people can resist the "magic magic" of cats, that is, the charming charm full of contradictions. biology.

This reminds me of a book "Roughly Like a Cat" written by the famous writer Haruki Murakami.

This book talks about the reasons why he likes cats and the extreme characteristics that only cats have. It also deduces that cat-like women are the most fascinating to men for the following reasons.

**## One: Be ruthless but not heartless, know how to keep a distance from others, and be more highly regarded by the opposite sex

Cats are definitely the creatures with the least facial expressions, most of the time, they appear expressionless. No matter how much each owner loves the cat, or even possessed to please the cat, the cat still seems to be indifferent, so many people say that cats are very cold-blooded.

However, those who have raised cats must know how deep the comfort cats bring to people.

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When sitting on the sofa, the cat puts down its aloof figure, curls up next to you silently, and accompanies you quietly; when you are sad, it will turn around you, revealing its most vulnerable belly, rolling and teasing you. happy.

It may not seem to need you, but you have to be in its sight or it will keep looking for you.

A woman who is unforgettable by a man can just keep the distance from the opposite sex, neither too far nor too close, knowing what distance makes him comfortable, and can just leave space for each other.

This kind of woman knows the cold and the hot, and she is not affectionate, but she is definitely not heartless. Only know that women who are attached to men are often not cherished. In the adult world, there is a great need to be left with personal space.

Two: Live independently, will not lose yourself for anyone, very powerful

Many people keep cats, especially office workers, because cats are more worry-free. They don't need to be taken out for a walk, and they don't need to be taken care of. As long as they don't freeze and starve, cats play by themselves most of the time.

Cats are very independent, they are solitary animals, and after they leave their mother, they start a person's life. When no one feeds, the cat hunts by itself, grooms itself, and is self-sufficient in everything.

When someone feeds them, they are not disturbed by human beings. They can eat when they want to, and sleep when they say they are sleeping, as if no one else exists. Their maverick appearance is irresistible.

Similarly, independent women are more liked by men. Only when they are strong enough to be independent can they maintain themselves in love. Those women who are always hurt in love are mostly because they lost themselves when they fell in love, they couldn't find their appearance, and they lost the focus of life.

Some women are even willing to let go of their self-esteem and pride in order to keep their beloved man, just like Zhang Ailing, lowing themselves to the dust,

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Very humble and cautious, how can such a woman be cherished by the other party?

Women must learn to be independent, both financially and spiritually.

A woman who is financially independent can choose the life she wants at will, and she can live an ideal life without anyone, and she will not grab a man like grabbing a life-saving straw;

Spiritually independent women can keep their hearts comfortable forever, and they will not worry about gain or loss because of a love. Their own spiritual world is rich enough, and love is just the icing on the cake for them.

Three: Noble and elegant, self-satisfied, people can't stop

The daily life of cats is often noble and elegant. They are lazy in the face of everything, calm and unhurried. Elegant after a meal

Licking your own hair, and gracefully shaking off any water on your claws, they seem to remain spotless forever.

The most important thing for women to learn is this point of cats, calm and calm in case of trouble, don't get angry or violent, that kind of appearance is really not good-looking.

I have seen too many old people sighing, sighing that I was a calm and elegant woman in the past, but later I was turned into a philistine by the scraps of the years, and even the face looked rushed and flustered, not at all indifferent.

Even if the years are leisurely, it is bound to be full of bitterness and difficulties. Women must learn to enjoy themselves and add happiness to their own lives. keep calm

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, Don't panic when things happen, do it step by step in an orderly manner, keep easy-going and elegant, this kind of appearance is the most charming.

A woman who always cares about things in life, becomes a narrow-minded person over time, and time will portray a person's heart on his face.

No one wants to look like they've been devastated by life, but whether you can be treated well by life depends on your heart.

In addition to Mr. Lao She and Haruki Murakami, there are also Mr. Feng Zikai, a famous painter, as well as Bing Xin and Qian Zhongshu. They all love cats very much. Because they all think that there is a kind of spirituality in cats, something with women.

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Cats' contradictory personalities are fascinating. Likewise, the most likeable personalities are those who are androgynous. They have the tenderness and intelligence of a woman and the toughness and rationality of a man. They are undefined and selfish. As a group, just standing there, it deeply attracts people to want to approach, just like a cat.

If you also love cats, I suggest you read "Haruki Murakami Cats" written by Haruki Murakami.

This book is very detailed

Showing all aspects of his daily life with cats, you will not only feel healed, but also get some inspiration from it: being a cat-like woman is an indescribable attraction, which is unstoppable.

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