'Toss' the cat more, in order to make the cat trust you more and more

I often hear a shit shoveling officer say this:

"Hey, my cat is so timid, even taking a bath out can be stressful."

"My cat is too stupid. After guests come to the house, it hides for the first time, coward."

"Why is my cat not sticky at all? I feel that it is very cold, and it disappoints me every time."

Most shit shoveling officers have the same confusion, but they don't know that the cat's character is actually formed during the kitten period.

The cat's character development and world view are actually developed before the cat is half a year old.

Strictly speaking, what a cat looks like when it is 3-4 months old, what will a cat look like when it is an adult.

If you want a cat who is outgoing, good at socializing, and not at all cowardly, then you need some "social training" for cats.

As for adult cats, it's too late to "rebuild".

Therefore, for the novice shit shoveling officer, it is necessary to train the cat when the cat is in the kitten stage.

How to "socialize" a cat?

First, let the cat try to have more contact with the outside world in the kitten period.

For example:

In the process of vaccinating the cat, let the cat have more contact with the people in the pet hospital, so that the cat can adapt to different people and the surrounding environment.

When you get home, let the cat stop by the door briefly.

The purpose of this is to open up the cat's curiosity, so that the cat will not be too scared when it comes to an unfamiliar environment, and even produce a stress response.

If you protect your cat too well, then the cat will most likely have a stress response as an adult.

Overly timid cats are actually flawed in character.

Second, spend as much time with your cat as possible.

The reason why some cats are cold, non-sticky, and keep a clear distance from the shit shovel when they become adults is because in the kitten stage, the cats did not feel enough care from the shit shovel.

Do you think:

A little milk cat left the mother cat and came to you in about 40 days, and it did not feel enough care from the mother cat; at this time, the little milk cat came to you and regarded you as the role of the mother cat treat.

As a result, the kitten finds that you have a bad attitude towards it, and the house is always empty all day, leaving the kitten at home alone.

At this time, what kind of changes do you think the cat's psychology will have?

Don't think that cats don't need company, cats also need company, because cats can also feel lonely.

Finally, tossing the cat properly will help the cat's character develop.

How should a novice shit shovel officer toss a cat?

The "tossing" mentioned here is not to spoof cats, but to increase the interaction with cats.

For example: tease the cat with a cat stick, walk the cat, play some hide-and-seek games with the cat, and make the cat curious about the things at home, etc.

These methods all help the cat's character development, not only that, but also help increase the cat's trust and affection for the shit shoveler.

Having a cat is sometimes like getting along with children.

If you don't give your child enough company and care when you are young, then when you grow up, your child will not want to approach you; because, in his childhood experience, he did not feel the love he wanted.

The same goes for raising cats.

Today's topic:

What is your cat's personality like?

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