The family harm caused by pet dogs cannot be ignored. Banning pet dogs is my only choice.
Pet dogs have been introduced into families in various forms by their owners. So far, countless pet dogs have been treated as family members and settled in families who like them. Their status at home, except that the household registration book is not registered by population, in the owner's mind, it is actually a family member who can't speak. They bring joy to the host family and add to the lively atmosphere. They conquered the owner's family to a certain extent, and at the same time, they inevitably brought some trouble to the owner while having fun. The size of the trouble lies in the master's training and civilized management of it. Of course, if you go out for a walk without a leash, or if you fail to comply with the relevant regulations, major disputes are caused, which is your personal problem.
The old irons who often read my articles know that I have a border shepherd, which is more than three years old this year. But the border shepherd, who had been raising for more than three years, suddenly disappeared, making every day empty and unpleasant. To be honest, in the past three years, no one has taken the dog's existence too seriously. Sometimes, they even complain about some of its shortcomings, such as serious hair loss, every room is, and the sweeping machine works twice a day, but it cannot be completely cleaned. Prepare food for it every day, and it does not eat dog food.
Even if you let it in the yard, there are often teddy who is not tied to the fence, barking and communicating with it by the fence, and gets beaten for this. When you go to work, the first sentence of your colleagues is always your dog. The hallmark of a dog owner is the dog hair on his clothes all the time. Usually a lot of unsatisfactory, but now it has become a thought, in this state of mind, it has almost no shortcomings. Sometimes people are so weird. Therefore, it is reasonable to say that many things have not changed, but people’s hearts have changed.
What is the highest state among dog owners? Not because of love, nor to cultivate children's sense of love since childhood, that is too unreal; it is not because others raise dogs and dogs. Dogs raised under this mentality will not have good results in the end. When it comes to owning a dog, it is about a dog-raising complex. If you like a certain animal, you should be responsible for everything about it, and accept all the advantages and disadvantages in your eyes. When asked why you keep a dog, you will say because you like it, and you can't say anything about other deep things.
To be precise, the real dog owner, the reason for keeping a dog, is that there is a dog-raising complex in his bones. Most dog owners do not have this complex. Let's talk about it, some loving people who adopted stray dogs changed everything for the dog, even sold their property for the dog, and separated their relatives for the dog. They do everything they can to keep the dogs alive. Their behavior, many people can't do it, but what will the dogs, including themselves, end up doing? Their behavior is admirable, after all, not everyone can do such a feat.
What is the social significance of doing this? What kind of social problem did it solve? Dogs have lived with Chinese people for thousands of years, why is love only manifested so far? Could it be that love has existed for a long time, but there has been no suitable time to show it? We will not comment on the internal reasons here. After all, the experience of raising dogs in mature countries is there. You have to solve it in your own way, sacrificing your personal interests is a small matter, and your family will be implicated as a result. Is this also out of a dog love complex? There are thousands of animal life in the world, but the dog's love is probably our unique feature!
To be honest, the reason why I keep dogs is not because I love dogs, but because of a dog-related complex. I like the sight of the dog sitting beside me when I eat, the kind of flattering and flattering to the master; all the straight thinking that judges one's right or wrong based on the master's emotions; They are occasionally stubborn and forbearance. If it is said that the master cares for them, in fact, are they not caring for the master all the time? Humans have changed them from free-range and super-free watchdogs to pet dogs that have lost their free space and are closer to human psychology.
It seems that everything is arranged for humans, but have you ever thought that they, who have become pet dogs, have subtly conquered and transformed you? How many dog owners are there in reality, and the human nature is very different before and after raising a dog? How many people who are usually gentle and kind, become arrogant and unreasonable after raising a pet dog. How many people who have always been law-abiding, willing to try the law for pet dogs? Dogs give their lives to their owners, they have no choice. And how many dog owners, keeping a dog is a need, and abandoning it is also a must. In order to achieve the goal, there are reasons everywhere.
After I raised a border shepherd, I was worried that living in a high-rise would bring trouble to others, mainly to ensure the dog's freedom. A dog like the Border Collie needs a lot of exercise every day. To this end, a house with a yard was purchased on the outskirts of the city, and lawns were planted in the yard instead of flowers and vegetables. It is convenient and running in the courtyard every day, these are its spontaneous behaviors. Even so, take it to an uninhabited place in the wild every week to give it plenty of free space. It can be said that we have worked hard for this dog, not because of dog love, but as a plot.
It's just not with us now, it's not that we abandoned it or that we gave it away. Rather, it chose a new owner on its own. My border shepherd was only a child when he was only five or six months old, and he lived in my niece's house for only three days. At that time, we left it in her house because we were out of town to take care of it. That is to say, in the past three days, when the niece's family came to see us, the dogs seemed to have seen their relatives. Until one day last month, three years later, when we took it out the door to take our niece home, it jumped into someone's car. We told her to take it home and deliver it tomorrow. As a result, there is no result.
A few days ago, I went to a friend's restaurant for dinner with my niece's family, and they brought the dog with them. When the dog saw my husband and wife, they were still very affectionate, not much different from before. He was always by my side during dinner, but when he came home after dinner, he didn't even say hello and jumped into their car. I can only laugh. But my wife couldn't stand it, and she cried and wiped her tears when she came home, saying that the dog had no heart. It's better now, in front of her, I don't mention the word dog every day, and I don't even dare to show her the videos of dogs in the past.
Everyone accuses irresponsible dog owners of keeping and abandoning their dogs, and detesting such behavior. But the situation in my family is the opposite. It is the dog who abandoned us, and its behavior that has caused damage to our psychology. Do you ask it to reason? In fact, I understand the dog's psychology, it is still too lonely, it lacks playmates. In her niece's house, she had the best relationship with the ten-year-old. We have watched a lot of videos in her house, and I feel that the dog is happier and happier than in my house, so let it go. It's just that although my dog-raising complex exists, I still made the decision to ban it. We also decided to sell the house in the township, so that the dog could not cause us a second injury.
Note: There are many photos and videos of Bianmu growing up in the mobile phone, but it is not easy to upload. I had to borrow some other photos for the picture, and I apologize to everyone here! Is it love or hate? The next article has its own explanation, Xiaobian has played us all, please understand it.