Why is your cat not clingy? There are 3 main reasons

"Children are better from other people's families. Look at other people's children, and then look at you."

"The cat is still good at other people's houses. You can see how gentle and sensible the cats are. Besides eating and sleeping, you are fighting with me."

Is this sound familiar?

In fact, in the hearts of most shit shoveling officials, there have been similar evaluations.

As long as they are active in the Internet and often surf the "net sucking cats" players, they will have such confusion.

Looking at the short video, other cats are so cooperative and gentle and obedient, but your cat only knows how to fight with you.

Could it be that cats are genetically different? From the moment of birth, was it doomed that the cat's character was so violent?

Or, the way you raise your cat is wrong, causing the cat's temperament to change?

In fact, the reason why your cat is not clingy is related to several factors.

-01

The development of a cat's character is inextricably linked with the cat's childhood.

Just like the development of a person's character, it is inseparable from the upbringing and subtle influence of the original family.

When the kitten is sold after living with the mother cat for less than 2 months, then the cat's personality is incomplete, and it will be aggressive and even insecure.

So you will find that when many pet stores sell kittens, they will often tell you clearly that the cat is over 2 months old.

Moreover, when cats are vaccinated, they are often required to be more than 2 months old before they can get their first cat's vaccine.

The kittens that leave the cat mother too early have not achieved a complete state of life habits and self-character development.

This will cause the kitten to feel insecure and become fierce. It takes a long time for the shovel officer to slowly change the cat's personality.

In this process, you need to constantly explore and let the cat feel enough kindness, so that the cat can establish a sense of security and trust in you.

-02

What is a compulsive interaction?

It can be simply understood as: the way the shit shovel officer interacts with the cat makes the cat feel very uncomfortable.

for example:

The cats are sleeping, they are really sleepy and mentally exhausted, they just want to have a good sleep.

But at this time, the shit shovel officer wanted to shake the cat to wake up and let the cat play with the shit shovel officer for a while.

You say, can the cat not be angry?

Put another way, if you just fell asleep and someone suddenly wakes you up, how would you feel?

Compulsive interactions are ubiquitous in the process of raising cats.

The cats have clearly expressed their dissatisfaction with you, even grinning at the shit shovel officer.

But the shit shovel officer was unmoved and continued to tease the cat until he angered the cat.

After so many repetitions, after bringing the cat a deep memory, the cat's love and trust in you will be consumed.

When this favorability is exhausted, that is, when the cat attacks you.

-03

If you often leave the cat in the process of raising a cat and leave the cat at home for a long time, the cat will develop separation anxiety.

This means that the cat's sense of security in you is completely lost.

Separation anxiety in cats is manifested in daily life: cats are nervous, scared, trembling all over, and hide when they see you.

It depends on how strong the cat is.

Don't think that cats can adapt to living alone for a long time, cats also need company.

Is your cat angry?

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