When her favorite 'pet' suddenly turned into 'dish in the plate', Mengwa's next reaction brightened
Recently I saw a video on the Internet, which made people laugh and think deeply. This is the story of a little girl and a fish.
When her favorite "pet" suddenly turned into "dish in the plate", Mengwa's next reaction brightened
There was the child’s favorite fish for dinner at this house. The little girl was happily eating, and while she was eating, she found that the fish on the table looked a little familiar, so the child asked her mother, “My favorite in our family is my favorite. Where did that fish go?" Mom said, pointing to the fish on the plate on the table!
It turned out that my mother bought a live fish at the market a few days ago. That day, there were other vegetables that were not slaughtered immediately but kept at home for a few days. These days, the little girl regarded this fish as her pet and came back every day. They all say hello to Xiaoyu, and sometimes chat with him, as if he has regarded this fish as a good friend. My little friend suddenly turned into a plate of Chinese food and no one can stand it! The child burst into tears and said "sorry" to his friend!
In fact, pets are not just simple animals to people, they are friends and partners, especially for children, parents are busy with work, and sometimes they don't care about communicating with their children, and the children's emotions are not When you express your feelings, you usually pin your feelings on small animals.
In fact, it is very beneficial for children to have a small animal for their growth!
- Learn to care and take care of others
Children are the most cherished and valued members of every family, and they are meticulously protected as they grow up. Many children have become accustomed to this kind of care and protection, and they have lost the ability to care and take care of others, which has brought great obstacles to their future social interaction.
Children who have experience caring for pets often have a big advantage in this area. Because of their experience in caring for and getting along with pets, these children are usually better at communicating. Between pets and children, children are undoubtedly dominant, so children who have experience in raising pets are also more likely to dominate in their interactions with their peers.
- Make children feel responsible
If your child is interested in raising small animals, you may wish to raise a small animal with your child. But you need to communicate with your children before raising them. The difference between small animals and ordinary toys is that they are all alive. Once we promise to raise them, we must take the responsibility of taking care of them.
Parents can let their children participate in the joint care of small animals, while helping the small animals to feed, water, walk, bathe the small animals, and clean the house, etc., while letting the children feel their responsibilities.
Children are usually in a vulnerable group in social groups, and most of them play the role of being protected. If a child has a pet, it not only adds a partner to the child, but also allows the child to experience a sense of accomplishment in protecting the weak.
- Recognize death and face separation
Death and separation are something that everyone must face and experience. The sooner we understand and experience it, the better our children can understand the preciousness of life. Children will experience differences in the process of growing up, and may face death directly. This is definitely not a pleasant experience. Many children grow up with their parents. Once they are away from their parents for a period of time, they cannot accept it. They feel depressed, cry and even cry. Therefore, getting sick and so on makes it very difficult to go to kindergarten and school.
The lifespan of ordinary small animals is shorter than that of humans. By letting children keep pets, they can give children the process of life and death. Parents can also explain the meaning of parting and death to their children slowly through the departure of their pets. In this way, when the child really faces the separation in the future, it will be more calm.
Having a small pet can help children become independent, and it is very beneficial for children to learn to care about others, but parents need to pay attention to ensure the safety of pets before raising pets, and regularly vaccinate pets to avoid accidental injuries to children.