'Relying on my wife Zhang Jiani to take the position, buy a super cheat? ': In a relationship, such a man is unreliable

> > "Don't mention marriage, have no status, have children out of wedlock, give up your career, and fall in love with soft men; Zhang Jiani, she is so cruel to herself." >

After Wang Xiaofei and Da S's marital farce, the trending search was dominated again.

Buy super cheat, Zhang Jiani calmly responded: "I can afford it, I can let it go".

However, behind the calm and rational, there may be extreme anger, unwillingness, disappointment and heartache.

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Relying on your wife to be in charge?

Some netizens said:

"If it wasn't for Zhang Jiani, I wouldn't even know who Mai Chao is."

"Such a soft rice man, even Zhang Jiani's husband is used as his Weibo signature, and he needs to rely on his wife to gain popularity. How can someone who is familiar with him have the nerve to cheat?"

A blogger summed up the things he did when Mai Chao fell in love with Zhang Jiani.

Since Zhang Jiani married Mai Chao, there has been no wedding; it is rumored that Mai Chao's mother doesn't like Zhang Jiani.

Zhang Jiani is at home and calls Mai Chao's mother "auntie" instead of "mother-in-law or mother".

Regarding the wedding, Zhang Jiani raised it many times, but Mai Chao has not responded clearly.

For this family, Zhang Jiani gave birth to two children, but she cheated on her when she bought a supermarket.

Another "Scumbag of the Year" was born.

As an emotional blogger, I have said more than once that such a man is really unreliable.

First: No title will be given to you.

Every girl desires to have an "unforgettable wedding" in her heart.

Whether it's a big fanfare or a romantic travel wedding that only belongs to two people, what women need is a sense of marriage ceremony.

It's only once in a lifetime, but they want to remember it forever.

Look at Mai Chao and Zhang Jiani again, how many years have they been together?

In 2015, Mai Chao proposed to Zhang Jiani, which means that the two have been married for 7 years.

In 7 years, Zhang Jiani gave birth to two children.

Review the emotional journey between two people:

At the beginning, Maichao pursued Zhang Jiani crazily and said, "If you don't marry me".

It's showing courtesy and giving gifts.

But I still owe Zhang Jiani a wedding.

In an intimate relationship, if the other party is not even willing to give you a "promise", he is really unreliable.

There is a consulting case:

The girl has been in love with the boy for 9 years, and she asked many times: "When will we get married?"

Boys shirk for various reasons.

"Not ready yet, just wait"

"I don't have any money yet, let's save money first"

"I want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, wait for me to go ashore"

In the end, the boys went ashore, but the girls had nothing.

Girls fell in love with boys from the age of 18 until they were 27, and they didn't have a name yet.

In the end, the girl was desperate and broke up.

The boy started a new relationship 2 months after the breakup.

Sarcastic, right?

So, a man who is not even willing to give you promises and hopes is really unreliable.

Second: openly complain about you, ridicule you

In a program, Maichao publicly complained about Zhang Jiani's various "disadvantages that are not shortcomings".

After watching the interview clips, Mai Chao praised himself throughout the whole process: "I like to tidy up very much, I am very organized, and I like to be clean."

When describing Zhang Jiani, he made no secret of his dissatisfaction with her.

After other guests reminded him many times and gave him a step up, he realized that he had said something wrong, and used a sentence: "It is also very cute" to cover himself.

What kind of man is unreliable?

People who always belittle you, accuse you, mock you, mock you, and beat you are unreliable.

In an intimate relationship, the means of maintaining affection is praise and appreciation.

If you don't appreciate the other person at all, why are you with the other person?

In everyone's heart, they hope to be appreciated and praised by the outside world.

The kindness from strangers, the praise from loved ones, the recognition and support from family members, all these will become our strength.

If you are with a partner who is constantly blaming you and taunting you, make sure you stay away from them.

A good love should fulfill you, not let you fall into "spiritual internal friction".

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Zhang Jiani, you are so cruel to yourself

I've said it many times: Falling in love with brainy girls often doesn't end well.

In fact, Zhang Jiani has a little love brain.

Give up your career for love.

If it wasn't for the marriage, Zhang Jiani's career would definitely go to a higher level and become a top-notch in the entertainment industry.

Has acting skills, looks, temperament, talent, and fame.

You said that she chose to get married when her career was on the rise.

Not only married, but also gave birth to two children for him.

She was really too cruel to herself.

When a woman, for the sake of love and marriage, studs all of herself, it means that she is about to lose this "game of love".

Through the incident of Zhang Jiani being cheated on, girls must understand these truths:

1. No matter how much you love each other, don’t give up your career.

What is the biggest strength of a girl?

Is it your mother's family?

Is it the other person who loves you?

Not at all.

The biggest confidence is that you have a job, income, and savings.

If your career is better than the other party's and your income is higher than the other party's, do you think the other party will disrespect you in front of you?

To take a step back, even if the other person doesn't love you anymore, you still have the ability and the courage to leave the other person at any time.

Instead of the other party leaving you, you have nothing.

2. Don't take love as everything.

Love is never the whole of life, there are many more important things than love.

For example: your career, your social circle, your hobbies, your independent personality, your ability improvement, etc.

Life is wonderful, not only love is wonderful.

If you spend all your energy on love, you will lose your way out.

Is the opposite of love hate? no.

The opposite of love is indifference.

I hope Zhang Jiani can find her true self again in the future and start a new life.

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