There are several manifestations that the ex 'regrets' breaking up with you
There is such a question on Zhihu:
"How to judge whether your ex still has you in his heart?"
It seems that in the heart of every "broken up" person, there are still some obsessions and "fantasies".
They expect their ex to come back to find themselves, to have more stories with their ex, and to rekindle their old relationship.
In fact, the person who took the initiative to break up with you may not completely forget you.
On the contrary, they will also miss you very much when they were together at a certain stage after the breakup.
He will think about you, want to know how your life is going, and even want to contact you again.
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What are the signs that your ex regrets breaking up with you?
How to tell if your ex has completely forgotten you?
First: He will continue to pay attention to your social platforms
Even after he separated from you, he didn't delete your contact information.
Moreover, he will occasionally look at your social platforms, perhaps leaving footprints, or deliberately hiding, not wanting to be discovered by you.
This is the most obvious manifestation that he has not forgotten you.
On some social platforms, you can actually see "browsing history".
Who is following you and who has visited you the most recently.
It is precisely because he has not forgotten you that he will pay attention to you silently.
Second: Inquire about your life in a side-by-side manner
He will talk to your mutual friends and ask about your current life.
"Is he all right?"
"How has he been lately?"
"Has he started a new relationship, is he married?"
There are also some people who are more straightforward, and they will take the initiative to chat with you.
Between the lines, inside and outside the words are all temptations for you.
Third: Tell you that he is having a bad time
"I haven't had a good time since I left you."
If your ex comes back to you and says similar things to you, it means he regrets leaving you.
There is a consulting case:
The girl had just been married for 3 months, and her ex sent her a message on a social platform.
"I didn't expect you to get married so soon. In fact, after leaving you, I didn't have a good life at all; I regret it and regret it. I want to make up for you, but now it seems that I have no chance."
Then the girl directly replied to him: "Get out of here."
People who leave you voluntarily and now come back to you, I think most people will reject this kind of people who "come as soon as you say it, and leave as soon as you say it".
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Why does your ex leave you and regret it?
First: He didn't find someone more suitable than you
In essence, those who take the initiative to leave you and break up with you, their feelings for you have already dropped to freezing point.
They come back to you again, saying that they can't forget you, and that they want to make up for you. In fact, they are covering up: "I didn't find the right person. I went around and found that you are more suitable."
It's that real.
Even in relationships, people hope to maximize their benefits.
I have seen such a story.
After the girl broke up with her boyfriend who had been in love for 4 years, she started 3 relationships in just 1 year.
The relationship failed several times, and the girl has reached the age of "hate marriage", and she can't wait to get married.
So the girl turned to look for the boy.
It means: "Although I left you, although I also started a new relationship, but the person who is thinking about you is you."
The scum is home.
The boy was also soft-hearted, and he still couldn't let go of his first love girlfriend, and then accepted to get back together.
What happened in the end?
The two have been married for less than 2 years and are ready to divorce.
The reason is that after the girls got married, they cheated.
Many times, when the other party comes back to you, it is not because they love you, but because they think that you still have the value to squeeze.
Second: the taker, who wants to take again
Do you believe?
After a relationship ends, it is often the "taker" who regrets it first.
For example:
During the relationship between A and B, A is the taker and B is the continuous giver.
When A maximizes the value obtained from B, he proposes to break up.
After breaking up for a period of time, A found that he could no longer find anyone who was willing to pay for him and serve him as B.
So, A looks back to B, looking forward to reuniting with B.
What does this mean?
What he can't forget is not you at all, but the value of you. He can't forget that you are good to him, that's all.
Is it reliable for your ex to get back together with you?
I stand by my answer:
"Any relationship that ends means that there is a problem between two people."
If you love deeply, no matter how big obstacles and difficulties you encounter, you will work together to overcome them together.
Those who break up when they say goodbye, break up when they say they break up, it's nothing more than not loving enough, no matter how good an excuse is, it's useless.
In the movie "Temperature of Love", there is such a line:
"After breaking up, there is an 82% chance that two people will get back together again; however, only 3% of these reunited couples can make it to the end, and the remaining 97% will separate again, for the same reason as when they broke up for the first time."
What is the most ironic thing in a relationship?
Play with the person who loves you deeply, fall in love with the person who plays with you;
Get rid of those who treat you sincerely and choose to use those who oppress you.
"Love will eventually flow to those who do not lack love."
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Your ex came back to get you back together, would you accept it?
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