Psychology: How to judge whether the girl you like wants to be with you?

If it is said that a girl only needs her to take the initiative to pursue a boy, and the two can be together;

The boy's pursuit of the girl was like being caught in an "emotional tug-of-war". The two kept pushing and pulling, exploring and playing games in their relationship.

This is the biggest difference between girls and boys when they face someone they like.

Girls will test first, and after confirming their feelings, they will take the initiative;

Boys are brave, giving, and timid.

Moreover, some boys' minds are not delicate enough, and they often cannot detect girls' feelings for them.

How to judge whether a girl wants to develop further with you and further deepen the relationship?

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Her "level of self-disclosure" with you

This is a concept in psychology.

Can be understood as:

When we get along with the outside world and face different people, we will show different degrees of self-exposure.

Psychologically, it is divided into these levels:

Level 1: Strangers

Say hello in a perfunctory way, and then don't bother.

Second level: ordinary friends or colleagues

At this time, you can simply chat about life, hobbies, and your views on things that overlap at the moment.

Level 3: good friend, loved one

At this time, the other party is willing to share more topics with you. Including some of her emotional experience, life, family background, etc.

Level 4: lover, family

He is willing to talk to you about various topics without reservation, even if it is a thought that has been hidden in his heart for a long time, he is willing to tell you.

Therefore, when getting along with the opposite sex, if you want to judge whether the girl you like likes you, it depends on how much she exposes herself to you.

for example:

You text her to chat.

She always perfunctory you every time, replying you a few words casually, or not replying to your messages at all.

What does this mean? Explain that her attitude towards you is just like this, she doesn't like you, and wants to keep a clear boundary and enough distance with you.

And if you chat with her every time, she will be very enthusiastic, and she will often even take the initiative to chat with you.

What does this mean?

It means that she does not reject chatting with you, and she still has some interest and affection for you.

Next, observe your chat records and topics.

Is the content of your chat limited to life, hobbies and work, or is there a deeper level of communication?

For example: love, marriage, physiology, their own emotional experience, etc.

If these topics are discussed, girls will be more than happy to share them with you.

This is enough to show that her trust and affection for you are very strong.

If you are willing to open your inner shackles to you, girls will really like you.

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Through dating, see girls' reactions

What are the performances of a girl who is willing to develop with you and does not resist you?

First: Accept Your Date Invitation

This is the first hint that a girl likes you.

Every time you invite a girl to eat, watch a movie, go shopping, or go somewhere, she will accept your invitation.

The girl's thinking is: "I think this boy is not bad, I can get in touch with him more and get to know him better."

A girl who doesn't like you, she won't give you a chance to date at all.

Second: see her specific performance when dating

Generally speaking, girls who like you will not let you "pay unilaterally".

For example:

You invite her to dinner, go shopping, buy her clothes.

Those girls who like you will often invite you to drink milk tea and also give you a small gift.

Because she cares and likes it, she wants to have more ties and contacts with you.

Conversely, if a girl doesn't like you, her subconscious reaction is: reject your gift, draw a line with you, and don't owe you anything.

How to increase a girl's liking for you when dating?

Teach you two psychological tricks.

1. "Dark Effect"

It's a fun psychological concept.

As the name suggests: In a dark environment with relatively low light, people's emotions tend to be tense, and they can't help showing their feelings to the people who accompany them in front of them.

Do you become emotional and lose your mind in the dead of night?

Therefore, when dating a girl, you can go to the cinema, go to a haunted house, and experience entertainment such as escape rooms.

2. "Drawbridge effect"

This is also a psychological concept.

It means: when a person is emotionally excited and his heart beats faster, it is easy to mistake this physical feeling for a good impression of the opposite sex in front of him.

To put it simply: If you want a girl to impress you and have a good impression of you, then mobilize her emotions.

What game can mobilize girls' emotions?

For example: go to the playground, go to the roller coaster, invite girls to try some outdoor sports or adventure games, etc.

The essence of liking a person includes: mood swings.

The greater the mood swings, the higher the chance that two people will have a good impression.

Today's topic:

How does your mood change when you like someone?

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