Psychology: The Feeling That Happens When You 'Meet True Love'

In relationships, everyone has the most direct desire deep in their hearts: hope to meet true love, meet soul mate.

What does it feel like to meet true love?

It's like a ray of light suddenly appeared in your dark life.

The appearance of the other party washes away all the negative emotions in your heart and sweeps away all the shadows in your life.

That moment you know, yes, the right person has finally come.

It's just that many people have never met true love in their entire lives, but fell into helplessness: "get it but don't love it".

So, what are the obvious feelings that arise when we meet true love?

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Being with each other makes you physically crave

There is such a line: "Love is eating many meals and sleeping many times with you."

Plain, simple, but always have the other side by your side.

When you meet someone you really like, you can't help but want to be close to them.

In the process of getting along with each other, you feel that he brings you a strong attraction, that kind of physical and psychological attraction.

This is true for both boys and girls.

Boys can't help but want to occupy each other, and girls also want to get closer to each other.

Psychologically speaking, true love is intense attraction.

It is a skin-to-skin relationship, a hug, a kiss, and the desire to have more contact and intersection with each other.

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When you meet true love, your mood is "relaxed"

When two people stay at the stage of liking each other, they will still be a little cautious.

"Carrying the burden of an idol", try to show your best side in front of the other party.

When eating, each other is just a taste;

When they meet, they will dress up carefully;

When dating, be very careful about your words and deeds.

In fact, the more cautious and careful your relationship is, the more it means that you have not yet achieved true love.

And when you are with the other person, you feel relaxed and comfortable from the bottom of your heart, and you can be yourself without reservation.

At that moment, it means that you have met true love.

From a psychological point of view:

The reason why the other party makes you relax emotionally and show your true self is because you subconsciously trust and rely on the other party completely.

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When you meet true love, there is only one other person in your world

In Pride and Prejudice, there is this line:

"Isn't it the true meaning of love to neglect others for the sake of one person?"

Perhaps, before meeting each other, there are many opposite sexes in your circle of friends.

You have maintained a good relationship with every opposite sex, and the opposite sex is very good.

But after meeting each other, you never want to have any intersection with other opposite sexes.

At that moment, only the other party is left in your world, and only the other party is left in your eyes.

You are willing to take the initiative to break off the friendship relationship with the opposite sex for the sake of the other party.

You will not easily compare the other party with other opposite sexes, because in your heart, the other party is the most precious person.

What is true love?

It is for one person, to give up the favor of others.

No matter how good the other is, you don't like it; no matter how bad the other is, you still love him deeply.

Love, unreasonable.

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When you meet true love, you will "empathize"

What is empathy?

It can be understood as: empathy, strong empathy.

for example:

When you are with the other person, your emotions will change with the other person's emotional fluctuations.

When he is happy, you are happier than him;

He has a good life and has achieved certain achievements, and you are happier than him;

He is having a bad time, you are more nervous than him;

He is sad, and your good mood is gone.

Excessive empathy, and consider problems from the perspective of the other party; no matter what you do, the first thing you think of is not yourself, but the other party.

Don't doubt at this moment, you just met true love.

If you are jealous of your partner's achievements and fear that your partner is doing better than you, then you are not really loving the other person, but trying to manipulate the other person.

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When you meet true love, you have the responsibility and responsibility

Mr. Qian Zhongshu said to Yang Jiang:

"Before I met you, I never thought of getting married; after I met you, I just wanted to get married."

Perhaps, before you met the other person, you were a firm "single person" who didn't want to get married or fall in love.

But after meeting the other person, you overthrow your own concept.

You have never liked someone so much.

You have the responsibility and responsibility, and write the other party into your future life plan.

Grow together and make progress together. From the bottom of my heart, I hope that the other party will live well, and I also hope that both of you will live well.

What is true love?

It is to work together in one direction, and to hope that the other party will get better and better without selfishness.

Today's topic:

Have you ever "met true love"?

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