In intimate relationships, girls' thinking patterns are very different from boys' thinking patterns.

For example:

Boys often say what they want directly; their emotions and goals are usually expressed straightforwardly, or convey information to you through expressions and behaviors.

Girls will make a few more detours.

It is said that "the heart of a woman is the needle under the sea", which is not false at all.

When a girl is angry, she will tell you: "I'm fine, I'm not angry."

When a girl wants it, she will say, "It's okay, I don't need it."

Therefore, when getting along with a girl, don't directly understand what she reveals, but learn to deeply analyze her mind.

Whether a girl likes you can be seen through your WeChat chat status.

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If a girl likes you, what behaviors will she use to hint at you?

Number one: language hints at you

Girl: "I went to a certain restaurant recently, the taste is very good, and the aftertaste is endless."

"A new movie theater opened recently. I heard that the facilities and scenes in it are good."

What is the subtext?

"I want to go to dinner with you"

"I want to go to the movies with you"

When girls say this, they are actually waiting for boys to invite her.

The girl said: "Oh, it's so boring. I don't know what to do on weekends."

Subtext: "You can chat with me more, or you can come to me and stay with me."

Under normal circumstances, girls don't talk too much with boys they don't like.

And if she is willing to share her life with you, express her emotions, express her thoughts and hobbies, it means that she intends to have more contact with you.

Second: When chatting, the "small thoughts" revealed

The girl said: "Seeing that you have posted a lot of news about girls in your circle of friends, you have a good relationship with the opposite sex, right?"

Subtext: "Although I like him very much, if he is a playboy and half-hearted person, then I still don't think about it."

The girl said: "I see that your life and work seem to be a lot of troubles recently? Tell me, I am very good at comforting people."

What does this mean?

It shows that girls are very concerned about your social dynamics, and want to open up the "emotional connection" between you through these details.

Third: the frequency and sharing of chat

Specific to chat behavior:

If a girl has a crush on you, she will take the initiative to chat with you, and the frequency of chatting with you is very high.

Chat with you at work, and chat with you before going to sleep.

Empathy:

If you like a girl, do you also want to have more interaction and understanding with her?

Being willing to take the initiative to find you has already explained a lot of problems.

And "desire to share" can better judge girls' affection for you.

"I share with you the weather, the food, the mood, and the stray cats on the side of the road. These are not what I want to express; what I want to express is that I am more willing to share everything in life with the people I like."

The favorability of adults is condensed in the desire to share.

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Girls don't like you, what are the details when chatting?

Number one: always take the initiative to end your chat

You are chatting hotly and want to share more topics with girls.

The girl suddenly said to you: "Sorry, I still have things to do."

"Sorry, I'm going to take a shower."

"Let's talk later, I have something to go out."

Then, there is no more.

She always finds an excuse to end the chat with you, and often doesn't chat with you again.

The tactful refusal revealed her thoughts: "I don't like you."

Second: Resistance during chatting

Every time you want to invite her to go shopping, eat, or watch a movie, she will find various reasons to refuse you.

You say, "I found a nice restaurant, can I take you there?"

She said: "I have lost my appetite recently, and I am still losing weight, next time."

Faced with your invitation, she always refuses;

In the face of some topics you raise, she turns a blind eye or changes the subject.

This behavior of resistance shows that she is resistant to you in her heart.

The more enthusiastic you are, the more she wants to escape.

Third: do not reply to the message

This is the most obvious hint.

Adult chat subtext: If you don't reply to your message, you are tactfully rejecting you.

Many readers commented:

"Why do you send a message to the person you like, and he disappears while chatting?"

"Why do I send him a lot of messages, but he doesn't respond to my attitude?"

"Why doesn't he reply to my messages?"

In fact, you must have already guessed something in your heart, but you are still unwilling to face the facts, right?

Not replying to the message is the most straightforward response.

She doesn't like you, doesn't want to chat with you, isn't interested in knowing everything about you.

The same is true in interpersonal communication.

Are you too lazy to reply to someone you don't like or who you don't know well?

Either turn a blind eye, or reply a few words depending on the mood, and then remain silent.

Girls like it first slow and then fast, first cold and then hot.

In the early days of getting along, she will observe you, understand you, and test you; once she is sure that you like her too, then girls will invest more in you and give you more emotions.

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