'The Stolen Three Years': To cancel the normalization of nucleic acid, we should reflect on 4 things

Anxious, and getting more and more anxious.

The first city proposed "no more nucleic acid inspections, no longer normalized nucleic acid testing", and more places have followed suit recently.

"It was stolen for 3 years", suddenly there was a tendency to let go, and I couldn't help being anxious.

Especially, when you realize that the epidemic is around you, very close to you.

It's possible to be a Yang person before you're even ready.

After all, if you really want to let go, no one knows that one day they will become yang.

In my building, there is a family on the 5th floor.

Therefore, our building was temporarily sealed at home.

The first time I was in close contact with the epidemic, I felt anxious.

I reflected on several issues.

1. Everyone is a "bystander"

When the epidemic is far away from us and does not occur around the environment where you live, but is amplified on the Internet, you will not feel that "sense of crisis".

At that time, we were all "bystanders".

There is a concept in psychology called the "bystander effect".

meaning is:

When something is required to be performed and completed by a single person, this person has a strong sense of responsibility and will try his best to do things well.

But if this matter is distributed to many people, then everyone's sense of responsibility will be reduced, and their mentality will shrink, so that the expected effect will not be achieved.

It is more vivid when used in the epidemic situation.

for example:

When they are "positive", 80% or even 90% of people are required to be isolated at home;

And the neighbors are "sun", and there are the same number of people, hoping that they will be taken away for centralized isolation.

This is the typical bystander effect.

It is conceivable that:

When a certain day is fully released, more people will definitely have sex one after another, and then spend it at home by themselves.

Will they choose to isolate at home, or continue to work, socialize, and gather outside regardless of their own yang?

It's all about morality, responsibility.

After all, this happens too:

"I was positive, but I didn't have a nucleic acid test, so no one knew I was positive, not even myself; after a while, I got better. But during this time, I wandered around, and maybe I let others get positive again." gone."

One becomes ten, ten becomes hundreds.

But these need to be borne by us personally.

At this time, the sense of personal responsibility and morality is particularly important.

2. Habits, psychological tolerance, and those who pretend to be powerful

3 years.

I have been doing normalized nucleic acid for 3 years, and I have experienced 3 years of strict or lax, true or perfunctory, real or absurd days.

People have subtly become a habit of doing nucleic acid and entering the test site for the first test.

Even if you don't want to admit it, or even like these "rules", they have passively become your habits.

People with poor psychological endurance may experience a feeling of "being lost".

It's like suddenly turning on the "sage mode".

There was such a story:

There was a man who kept pigeons at home.

The way he trains and feeds pigeons is: as long as you flap your wings frequently, I know you are hungry and I will feed you.

Day after day, year after year, the owner had an accident and never returned home.

The pigeon was hungry, and flapped its wings desperately, but it flapped its wings all day and all night, but still no one gave it food.

In the end, the pigeon was tired and hungry, and died suddenly.

Ironically, the pigeon is not caged or chained, it can flap its wings and leave at any time.

do you understand?

Of course, there are also those who pretend to be powerful.

When the tiger withdrew to the depths of the forest, the fox could no longer take advantage of the situation to "pretend to be X".

After all, a chicken feather is a chicken feather, and it can only be a chicken feather, not an arrow.

3. To increase revenue and reduce expenditure, and strive to make money, is the next primary goal

To be honest, the owners of restaurants and physical stores around me are very difficult.

In one case, the house was foreclosed.

But what can he do?

Without money, the store can't open and can only live on its laurels.

Seeing that the deposits are getting less and less, in the end there is really no other way, and we can only let the situation worsen.

After these three years of experience, more and more people understand the truth: "Save money, make money, and consume rationally."

It can be seen from the data some time ago:

"More and more people are starting to pay off their mortgages early."

What does this mean? It shows that everyone does not want to bear such a large "leverage".

I want to reduce the family's expenses as much as possible and reduce the pressure on the family.

4. Mentality, health, family, reunion

Mindset matters, really matters.

Because in the days to come, it can be expected that many unexpected things will happen.

To develop a good habit of planning for a rainy day, let yourself develop a good attitude.

After all, things are in front of you, you can only accept and try to change.

If you can't change it, you can only accept it.

Health is very important, we must develop a good habit of exercising.

When parents exercise, children will also be affected and join in the exercise.

As time goes by, the family atmosphere will also improve.

Family and togetherness are the goals of our lives.

Life is short, cherish the moment.

It is difficult for everyone, even if you see the sun, you will encounter new problems.

Whether it is cloudy, rainy or sunny, it is not as good as looking forward to a better tomorrow.

Today's topic:

Do you feel anxious?