It is this type of girl who is easy to be liked and pursued by boys

Did you find an interesting phenomenon?

Girls who are particularly good-looking, very strong, and have a strong aura often gain a group of "female fans"; while boys' attitudes towards them are not so fanatical, maintaining a kind of "can be seen from a distance but not played with". Attitude.

This reminds me of a joke on the Internet:

"Men all hope that other people's wives are good-looking and like to look at other girls; however, they all hope that their wives dress conservatively and are not so pretty."

In the subconscious of some boys, their idea is: "Girls who are too good-looking = dangerous".

Just like what Yin Susu said to Zhang Wuji in "Yi Tian Tu Long Ji":

"Be sure to stay away from beautiful women, the more beautiful they are, the more they will deceive people."

So, when getting along with the opposite sex, what kind of girls are more likely to be liked and pursued?

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First: "High availability", the appearance is not too "aggressive"

There are two girls who are both beautiful.

A girl has more "flattery", which makes people unable to extricate themselves at a glance, immersed in it, and wants to have more contact with her; The aura makes people feel refreshed.

The other girl belongs to Xiaojiabiyu, the attitude of the sister next door; easy to shy, polite, and will keep kindness and smile with everyone.

Most guys will choose the latter.

Because the former will make boys feel "aggressive", and the aura is too strong, the boy's inner thought is: "It's too strong, it's hard to control at first sight, and I have a hard time with her."

The latter will give boys the illusion that they are "more available" and easier to catch up with.

Second: clean and decent, generous and true

Girls' dress, temperament and appearance are also factors considered by boys.

Boys prefer the one that:

Dress generously, decently, and authentically; there is no need to wear heavy makeup or exaggerated clothes, just simple, even without makeup, as long as it is clean and decent.

Guys like girls who are real and generous.

And those girls with heavy makeup and casual or sloppy clothes will make boys stay away.

After all, if a girl always does not dress herself up, dresses sloppily, and looks sloppy, it will only make boys feel:

"She is so lazy to herself, and she will only have more shortcomings in her private life."

Boys are more willing to analyze girls' living conditions and personalities through their appearance.

They are more rational and analytical.

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If it is said that the external image determines whether a boy will like her, then the inner attractiveness of a girl determines whether a boy is willing to pursue her.

What kind of personality girls are more likely to be liked by boys?

First: high emotional intelligence, know how to praise and subdue

In the bones of men, it is their nature to desire to be admired, recognized, and praised.

Just like men in ancient times, going out to hunt is an intuitive expression of their desire to conquer and challenge.

In their subconscious mind, they hope to be admired by the person they like.

Once a girl satisfies a boy's "vanity" and "being admired" mood, then the boy will love you more.

Second: Empathy is strong, and boys will not be forced

This brings me to a story.

Boys and girls have been married for many years and have known each other for 10 years, and they rarely have conflicts.

Girls shared their secrets of managing relationships:

She said that many times she would consider issues from her husband's point of view instead of venting her emotions first.

My husband doesn't smoke or drink, and only has one hobby: playing games.

Therefore, in order to accompany her husband, she proposed to decorate a "game house" at home, and agreed that the two of them could go in and play games one day a week.

Because of this incident, she can clearly feel that her husband has devoted more to work, family and marriage.

If she refuses her husband to play games, or even destroys his interest in playing games, what will happen?

It is very likely that two people will have a big fight, and the relationship will get worse and worse.

Third: Have a strong sense of "independence" and a strong sense of self-worth

do you know?

Studies have shown that the more independent girls are, the easier it is for boys to like them.

This independence includes: spiritual independence, personality independence, and economic independence.

Such girls have enough confidence and advantages. They are not inferior, not flattering, neither humble nor overbearing.

Once she finds that there is a problem with the relationship between the two, she will leave bravely.

Know how to refuse, have a strong sense of boundaries, let boys feel "If you don't love me, I have the ability and courage to leave you at any time".

Such girls are more attractive to boys.

On the contrary, those girls who are submissive and always please are not cherished by boys.

Such is the weakness of human nature.

The more you care about you, the less you cherish those who please you;

The more you are ignored and perfunctory, the easier it is for you to pay attention.

Today's topic:

What kind of girl attracts you the most?

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